Why this is so important
Most of the time people struggle, not because they are "bad date material." They struggle because they make the same errors again and again:cryptic profiles, over used openers, and conversations that never turn into a meet. Fix the process, and results follow.
The photo checklist
- Photo 1: clear face, good lighting, natural expression.
- Photo 2: full body (normal setting, not a mirror selfie).
- Photo 3: doing something you actually enjoy (activity, hobby, event).
- Photo 4: social proof (one group photo max).
- Photo 5: a clean “extra” (travel, outdoors, or dressed up).
What to avoid
- Too many sunglasses / hats (people want to see your face).
- Blurry or dark photos (looks like you’re hiding something).
- Only group photos (confusing and low effort).
- Old photos (leads to awkward first meets).
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Quick action plan
- Keep your pics fresh (use good lighting + clear face shot + and at least one full body photo).
- Write one specific line (what do you do for fun or what interests them).
- Send 5–10 one line statements and plan to get together within 1–3 days.
- Use a stress free first date: coffee + walk (45–75 minutes).
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