Why this is so important
Most of the time people struggle, not because they are "bad date material." They struggle because they make the same errors again and again:cryptic profiles, over used openers, and conversations that never turn into a meet. Fix the process, and results follow.
A simple messaging formula
- Hook: reference one detail from their profile.
- Question: ask one easy question (not an interview).
- Bridge: suggest a short meet if the 420 vibe is good.
Examples you can adapt
- “You mentioned sushi—what’s your go-to spot?”
- “That hiking photo is legit. What trail was that?”
- “You seem fun—coffee this week and a quick walk?”
- “Two truths and a lie: I’ll start if you do.”
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Quick action plan
- Keep your pics fresh (use good lighting + clear face shot + and at least one full body photo).
- Write one specific line (what do you do for fun or what interests them).
- Send 5–10 one line statements and plan to get together within 1–3 days.
- Use a stress free first date: coffee + walk (45–75 minutes).
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