Why this is so important
Most of the time people struggle, not because they are "bad date material." They struggle because they make the same errors again and again:cryptic profiles, over used openers, and conversations that never turn into a meet. Fix the process, and results follow.
The non-negotiables
- Meet in public for the first date (coffee is perfect).
- Tell a friend where you’re going + share your location if you want.
- Keep the first meet short (45–75 minutes).
- Don’t send money. Don’t share banking info. Ever.
- Don’t feel bad ending a date early if anything feels off.
Common warning signs
- They push you off-app quickly (Telegram/WhatsApp) for no clear reason.
- Urgency + emotional pressure early (“I’ve never felt this before”).
- Inconsistent stories, cryptic details, or refusal to video chat.
- Requests for help, gift cards, transfers, or “investment” talk.
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Quick action plan
- Keep your pics fresh (use good lighting + clear face shot + and at least one full body photo).
- Write one specific line (what do you do for fun or what interests them).
- Send 5–10 one line statements and plan to get together within 1–3 days.
- Use a stress free first date: coffee + walk (45–75 minutes).
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